I think one of the greatest legacies a parent can leave for their children is their life story. This is why I taught a memoir writing workshop in San Diego for several years. Yes, I got a small stipend for teaching the workshop, but that wasn’t my primary reason for doing it. I took great delight in helping the members of the class to recall their lives and put them down on paper, for family, friends, and others to enjoy.
We are all put down in a running river of life: our families came before us, and more will follow, but we live for a moment in that river, live a life that no one else lives. Our lives are worth recording, if only to preserve our memories. But there is another reason: our lives will never be repeated. Our times will never be repeated. So often, I have to tell members in my class that people no longer know about things that were commonplace in their lives: from one-room schoolhouses to automated cafeterias, to chokes on cars or “pinning” your girl.
Each life is unique and each should be captured on paper. Not all must be published, but they should be shared. Future generations will enjoy these personal snapshots of life.